Where would you be without your best friend? Husband or wife?
Do you think you would be doing the same thing your doing today if you never met them?
I've been wondering that for 2 days now and thinking what I would be doing if I didn't move, would I still be doing the same stuff I am today just in a different state? Would I still have the same personality? Would I still have the same job aspirations for the future? I don't think I would.
In life, there are things that happen that effect how you interact with people or live your life. In my case, when I was growing up there were occasions where after I said something I thought to myself "Did I really just say that?" and after a while I just started to rethink how I word stuff or even say them at all. If those occasions never happened would I be as social as I am today?
Through life we will have more and more things that really change how we live our day-to-day lives and some will be good, others could be worse. Just depends how you deal with those changes and the changes that will come.
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Hello! Well I was thinking about this today, and it actually helps me to deal with the fact that my ex is a total psycho. I never would have moved west without him, as I would have been too overwhelmed doing it alone, and so many awesome things have happened since I moved and changed me as a person that I wouldn't change it if I tried, although I do wish he'd stop texting me ;)
On changing how you deal with things to get a different outcome, I completely agree with you. To use the same example, although it must be annoying to hear about ;), my ex didn't work the time we were together and controlled me to the point of having no friends. Should I feel like a victim in that? No, I don't think so. I allowed him to do that by my reactions to it. If I had made it clear from the beginning that that wouldn't fly, and stuck to my guns about it, we would have either had a very short relationship, or he would have realized how I needed to be treated. But then again, had I not let him leech off of me for 2 years, I wouldn't be here, in this moment, where I am very content. So it's definitely a bit of a mindfuck to think about :P Ok, longest comment ever, sorry! :D
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